{"id":17496,"date":"2022-04-04T13:00:59","date_gmt":"2022-04-04T13:00:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.healthymale.com\/squad\/?p=17496"},"modified":"2022-04-04T13:00:59","modified_gmt":"2022-04-04T13:00:59","slug":"5-best-opening-messages-for-online-dating","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.healthymale.com\/blog\/dating\/5-best-opening-messages-for-online-dating\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Best Opening Messages for Online Dating"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Online dating is a convenient way to meet someone in the comfort of your home.<\/p>\n<p>While nearly half of US adults find that dating has been hard in the last 10 years, many had a positive<br \/>\nexperience with online dating apps, and some even found their soulmate.<\/p>\n<p>However, not all of us are confident enough to even chat with someone.<\/p>\n<p>If you matched with someone you like but don\u2019t know what to say, here are 5 opening messages that could get the conversation going:<\/p>\n<h3>1. Connect on common ground<\/h3>\n<p>When you look at the person\u2019s profile, you will see hints of what they are into, and you can start from there.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf you won an all-expense trip to anywhere in the world, where would you go?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If you and that person love to travel, you will surely get a reply and start a conversation.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Be funny<\/h3>\n<p>Everybody loves a witty message. So instead of complementing them on their body just like other guys, say something funny like:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHow much does a polar bear weigh?\u201d \u201cEnough to break the ice!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>It works every time.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Be cautious when talking about looks<\/h3>\n<p>Of course, everybody loves to be complimented on their looks, but you should tread lightly with this subject. Instead of saying \u201cYou\u2019re hot!,\u201d you could say something like:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou look gorgeous, I don\u2019t think I deserve to match with you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>It might not work for most people, but it usually does.<\/p>\n<h3>4. If someone likes dogs<\/h3>\n<p>Many profile photos feature them with their dogs, so if that is the case, open up with a short but simple dog question like:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cTop 3 dog breeds, go!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>This message will definitely get a reply from a true dog enthusiast.<\/p>\n<h3>5. Make them think<\/h3>\n<p>An opening message should encourage critical thinking, but don\u2019t over do it. You could say something like:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDescribe yourself in three emojis, I\u2019ll go first.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>These messages will not guarantee a response, but there is no harm in trying if you don\u2019t know how to break the ice.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Online dating is a convenient way to meet someone in the comfort of your home. While nearly half of US adults find that dating has been hard in the last 10 years, many had a positive experience with online dating apps, and some even found their soulmate. However, not all of us are confident enough [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":17559,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[682],"tags":[725,1209],"class_list":["post-17496","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating","tag-dating","tag-online-dating"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.healthymale.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17496","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.healthymale.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.healthymale.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.healthymale.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.healthymale.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17496"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.healthymale.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17496\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.healthymale.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17496"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.healthymale.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17496"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.healthymale.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17496"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}