{"id":17752,"date":"2022-06-27T13:00:37","date_gmt":"2022-06-27T13:00:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.healthymale.com\/squad\/?p=17752"},"modified":"2022-06-27T13:00:37","modified_gmt":"2022-06-27T13:00:37","slug":"5-signs-that-you-fear-intimacy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.healthymale.com\/blog\/relationships\/5-signs-that-you-fear-intimacy\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Signs That You Fear Intimacy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Intimacy and commitment are parts of a relationship that is needed to make it long lasting and healthy.<\/p>\n<p>However, without knowing, you might fear intimacy.<\/p>\n<p>And this fear might cause you to sabotage a healthy romantic relationship with your partner.<\/p>\n<p>Being intimate with another person isn\u2019t just about sex, it is also about being:<\/p>\n<p>Emotional- You are open to talking about your feelings.<br \/>\nIntellectual- You are open to having deep conversations and sharing ideas.<br \/>\nExperiential- You bond over hobbies and interests.<\/p>\n<p>If you feel that you fear intimacy and it is not going well for you and your partner relationship-wise, here are 5 signs that you fear intimacy.<\/p>\n<h3>1. You find it difficult to express your needs<\/h3>\n<p>If you are afraid to discuss and express your needs to your partner, this is a sign that you fear intimacy.<\/p>\n<p>This fear is caused by feeling undeserving of someone\u2019s affection.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Perfectionism<\/h3>\n<p>Another sign that you fear intimacy is the need to be perfect. Whether you are perfect or not, you deserve that person in your life.<\/p>\n<p>If you feel that you always need to be at your best all the time, it is a clear sign that you are afraid of being<br \/>\nintimate with someone.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Difficulties with physical contact<\/h3>\n<p>You might always avoid physical contact, especially if you and your partner just met or just started a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Having trouble with physical contact is a clear sign of your fear of intimacy.<\/p>\n<p>It could be because of the trauma of past relationships or other reasons.<\/p>\n<h3>4. Fear of commitment<\/h3>\n<p>This cause is probably present because of the trauma from prior relationships.<\/p>\n<p>If you are afraid of getting hurt because of the past, you may find it difficult to be intimate with someone.<\/p>\n<h3>5. Sabotaging relationships<\/h3>\n<p>If you are constantly sabotaging every relationship you have ever been in, you may fear intimacy.<\/p>\n<p>Because you fear that your relationship will break down any minute, you go ahead and sabotage it before it gets serious.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Intimacy and commitment are parts of a relationship that is needed to make it long lasting and healthy. However, without knowing, you might fear intimacy. And this fear might cause you to sabotage a healthy romantic relationship with your partner. Being intimate with another person isn\u2019t just about sex, it is also about being: Emotional- [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":17773,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[736],"tags":[1123,1587],"class_list":["post-17752","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationships","tag-intimacy","tag-intimacy-fears"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.healthymale.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17752","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.healthymale.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.healthymale.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.healthymale.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.healthymale.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17752"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.healthymale.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17752\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.healthymale.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17752"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.healthymale.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17752"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.healthymale.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17752"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}