Online dating is a convenient way to meet someone in the comfort of your home.
While nearly half of US adults find that dating has been hard in the last 10 years, many had a positive
experience with online dating apps, and some even found their soulmate.
However, not all of us are confident enough to even chat with someone.
If you matched with someone you like but don’t know what to say, here are 5 opening messages that could get the conversation going:
1. Connect on common ground
When you look at the person’s profile, you will see hints of what they are into, and you can start from there.
“If you won an all-expense trip to anywhere in the world, where would you go?”
If you and that person love to travel, you will surely get a reply and start a conversation.
2. Be funny
Everybody loves a witty message. So instead of complementing them on their body just like other guys, say something funny like:
“How much does a polar bear weigh?” “Enough to break the ice!”
It works every time.
3. Be cautious when talking about looks
Of course, everybody loves to be complimented on their looks, but you should tread lightly with this subject. Instead of saying “You’re hot!,” you could say something like:
“You look gorgeous, I don’t think I deserve to match with you.”
It might not work for most people, but it usually does.
4. If someone likes dogs
Many profile photos feature them with their dogs, so if that is the case, open up with a short but simple dog question like:
“Top 3 dog breeds, go!”
This message will definitely get a reply from a true dog enthusiast.
5. Make them think
An opening message should encourage critical thinking, but don’t over do it. You could say something like:
“Describe yourself in three emojis, I’ll go first.”
These messages will not guarantee a response, but there is no harm in trying if you don’t know how to break the ice.
