First dates are tough. It’s someone new. You’re nervous but excited at the same time.

While it’s cool to keep it fun and casual, you would be mistaken to not pay attention to red flags that pop up.

Six Red Flags to Be Aware of on a First Date

1. They want to order everything. 

They pick the restaurant and immediately call a server over and state exactly what the appetizer, meal, and dessert should be, the exact wine or beverage without consulting you. 

This is a highly controlling person who will likely never allow you to make a decision.

2. They constantly talk about all they have accomplished.

Someone who constantly talks about their success, how much money they make, their travels, or what they own indicates narcissistic behavior. Plus, they are probably lying.

3. They are critical. 

A date who is critical of others in the room, of the meal, or makes a negative comment about your attire or job is someone to avoid. Complaining is a lifestyle.

4. They ask you how much money you make or other personal information.

Asking for personal information on the first date is a sign of a golddigger. They want to know what’s in it for them. 

5. They constantly check their phone or look around the room. 

Someone who is constantly looking at their phone or around the room and checking out their other options and is likely bored with you.

6. They are evasive about their life or past.

A date that isn’t open about their careers, their relationships, or history is hiding something.

Most people should be able to tell you where they’ve worked, what they do now, and whether they are single, widowed, or divorced.

Being aware of body language and how people converse will tell you a lot about the person’s character.

Don’t be so engrossed in the date that you aren’t paying attention.

Understanding what they are telling you with their behavior will keep you from being hurt later.